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We are not counsellors, and we cannot advise you on your own marriage by email. We would do it badly, and getting it wrong in a private situation we know nothing about could do real harm.
If things are hard right now, a qualified marriage counsellor or therapist will help you far more than we can. Chapter 9 of the book is about exactly that — how to find someone competent wherever you live, six questions to ask before you pay anyone, and nine reasons to walk out.
And if there is an affair, a spouse who has said she is leaving, coercion or abuse in either direction, or an addiction that has a hold on either of you — please speak to a professional rather than reading a book. That is the book's own advice, in its own words, given before you reach Chapter 1.
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