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A 232-page book delivered as a PDF, together with two included files: The Weekly Check-In Card and "If She Reads This Too". Nothing physical is shipped. Access is delivered by our payment provider immediately after payment clears.
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This book is not medical, psychological, psychiatric or legal advice, and it is not a substitute for professional counselling or therapy. The author is not a licensed clinician, holds no clinical qualification, and says so in the book itself.
It is written for a marriage where two willing people have lost their way to each other. It is not appropriate where:
In any of those situations, please consult a qualified marriage counsellor, therapist or doctor. Chapter 9 of the book says the same thing at greater length, and includes guidance on finding someone competent.
We make no promise about your spouse's behaviour, feelings or choices. No book can promise that, we do not promise it, and the book states plainly that it does not.
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